Why Should I Hire a Funeral Photographer?

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When I was first approached about photographing a funeral, I honestly felt pretty conflicted. What would that feel like? How would people perceive me? What would they think? I wanted to respect the families' wishes, which was to hire me to document this time in their life, but I was also very apprehensive.

We all understand why people choose to hire a photographer for fall family photos, their wedding, newborn photos, and other key life events. We can get behind this idea and it is widely accepted. And for the most part, people know how to "behave" at these events. Funerals, on the other hand, are very unique and everyone processes their emotions in different ways. The thought of documenting a funeral service can be intriguing to some and appalling to others.


  There are few photographic events in life that can capture the tenderness a family shares in their deepest moments of need.

There are few photographic events in life that can capture the tenderness a family shares in their deepest moments of need.

So, now that I've convinced you that hiring a funeral photographer is a terrible idea, let's explore the possibility that maybe it isn't the worst thing after all. In fact, it just might be the best thing to jump start the healing process.

Family and Friends Gathered together

When was the last time all of your closest family members and dearest friends were gathered in one room together? I'm going to guess it was at your wedding (which may have been many years ago.) I've been told by the families I've photographed that they are so thankful for these photos so they can see who all was in attendance. During a funeral, we are so wrapped up in what is happening in the moment that we may not even remember who came to give their respect to the family. With a professional photographer on site, you can take time between planned events to record family history by getting a photo of all of the cousins in the family, for example.

Celebrate the legacy, forever

When done with respect and sensitivity, this type of photography can provide lasting memories for the immediate family to reflect back on over the years. Planning the perfect day to honor the person you love the most can be an overwhelming and daunting task, but it's important to have a way to look back on the day and have some type of closure. Once family and friends make their way out of town and the quiet sets in, you will be left with the memories of your family's love and support. An heirloom photo album just might be the perfect way to relive the day as you look through images of your dearest friends and family members demonstrating their love and support for you during this hard time.

Begin the healing process

We all go through the grieving process after the loss of a loved one and some of us can get "stuck" in different phases along the way. We may live in denial for many months, or harbor anger or regret for the words we said, or never got the chance to say. The day of the funeral can elicit so many emotions from each family member since they just lost someone close to them as recently as a few days before. We fluctuate from one emotion to another and everyone processes these emotions differently. With a few weeks' buffer between the funeral and receiving their portraits, family members are able to relive the day with fresh eyes and often a glad heart. They see the love and support of their loved ones who joined them and may be able to begin the healing process of grieving the loss of the most important person in the world to them.

Ultimately, each family will have to decide if this type of photography is the right choice for them. It may or may not be, and either way, it is okay. Each deciding family member should determine whether or not this is something they would want for themselves and their own family, and then talk through the various pros and cons. 


In loving memory of Tom Trimble, Georgia Williams, and Norma Force.


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Interested in learning more?

I'd be happy to setup a complimentary consultation or phone call to answer any questions you have about this type of photography.


I am available for hire within 40 miles of DFW for funeral photography. I'd be happy to discuss the two options I offer families for this type of photography. If you would like more information, please fill out the contact form below and I'll get back to you within 24 hours. I look forward to meeting you and learning more about how I can support you during this difficult time.

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Carrollton, TX Photographer // Reality // A Personal Post // Hills 2017 in Review

TWO THOUSAND SEVENTEEN

What an incredible year! 2017 has come and gone, even though it feels like it JUST started! It was another year full of adventure, excitement, travel, and time with friends, family, our pups, and our sweet girl. 

Even if no one else reads this post or finds it interesting, I love having a record of our favorite moments each year. Here's last year's post if you are interested. Happy New Year to all of our friends, family, and fabulous clients!


#bearfood2017

The summer of 2017 took us north through Wyoming, Montana, and Canada to four incredible National Parks - Yellowstone NP, Grand Teton NP, Glacier NP, and Banff NP.  I wrote a whole post about our trip last summer. You can read more about our adventures on this blog post if you're interested! It was hard to top last year's trip west (#bearfood2016) to Grand Canyon NP, Zion NP, Yosemite NP, and Sequoia/Kings Canyon NP, but somehow these parks surpassed all of our expectations. There are some amazing places to visit in this country. We're hoping to travel through all of Utah's National Parks this summer for #bearfood2018!


Our girl

I can't believe how much this girl has changed in one year. She's 11 now and has a great heart and a good head on her shoulders. I've also decided she's skipping the awkward middle school phase entirely. She's pure beauty from the inside out.  


my mountain(biking) man

Bry never ceases to amaze me. Once he sets his mind to something, he just goes for it. His main goal for 2017 was to improve his mountain biking skills and he definitely met that goal. He biked through the 105 degree summer temps and 30 degree winter temps. I'm so impressed by his commitment to meet his goals no matter how difficult they may seem. One of his dreams is to bike through Colorado and Utah in 2019 along the San Juan Hut System.


The pups

These two are just as cuddly and sweet as ever. Although Kota has attempted to eat through our house on several occasions, it's just impossible to deny that sweet face the hugs and kisses she longs for. Kota will be two in May and Lucy turned six a few weeks ago.


hamilton

One of my goals this year was to see the musical Hamilton in Chicago. We purchased tickets on Jan. 1st and we saw the show mid-February. If you've seen this Broadway show, you know there's nothing else like it and there's a reason it has and is crushing box office records. New life goal: See Hamilton again. And again. And again.


friends and fam

We love the people we get to do life with. They are all so special to us. We lost many loved ones in 2016. In 2017, we lost my Uncle Tom - a helicopter pilot in Vietnam who received the Bronze Star and was twice awarded the Air Medal during his service in Vietnam. We will miss him greatly. Our family will never be the same without him. 


We're goin' places...

We feel so blessed to be able to travel as much as we do each year and we do not take it for granted. Some of our trips this year (besides #bearfood2017) included our fifth annual trip to Petit Jean State Park in Arkansas, Bry's solo snowshoeing trip through Medicine Bow in Wyoming, hammocking anywhere and everywhere, Big Bend National Park, and Bry's backpacking "guys trip" in Oklahoma.

Love to you all! Merry Christmas and Happy 2018!

Brian and Julie


 
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